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Friday, November 28, 2008

You can't do that!

Hope you all had a wonderful and blessed Thanksgiving!
Thanks for sharing your most embarrassing moments with me in the last post and letting me know I'm not alone.
My Alivia drew a name out of her jeweled hat and the winner of Andrea's book is...
MIA!!!!
Congrats Girlfriend! E-mail me your home address so I can forward it to Andrea and you can get your book and head to Miracle, Kentucky.




Last week for 3 nights our son Aaron went through high school basketball try-outs. So much different than the Jr. high ball he was used to playing. I'll never forget at the beginning of the school year when he came home and said, "Mom! I just found out that there will be basketball practice every day!" Welcome to the land of no recess and no more optional basketball practices followed by a Saturday morning game with donuts served.



Wednesday night, the final night of try-outs my teenagers decided jointly to let me believe that Aaron got cut from the team. When they saw the tears glistening in my eyes is when one would think they would 'fess up and tell me the truth. No, not my twisted teens, they let it drag out until finally Aaron told me that he made it. After punching him in the arm, I congratulated him then drove him to youth group. When we got there we sat in the car talking while Aaron finished his dinner. That's when he told me that he is going to tell his basketball coach that on Wednesday's he will need to leave practice early so that he can go to youth group.




I strongly profess Jesus in my life on my blog, so any reader would think that this Mom would burst out into uncontrollable praise that her son is choosing to make Jesus his priority.
But sadly, I didn't.
Instead, a fear rose up in my chest and I tried talking him out of it.
"You can't do that Aaron. You can't just tell your coaches what you're going to do. You have a commitment to this team and you need to keep it."
Away from the comfort of a keyboard this Mom was clearly not choosing to walk her talk.
His response to my prediction of him sitting for taking a stand was "Oh well".




Was I really saying this? Here my son has made some major changes in his life toward the One who died on the Cross. Changes I've been praying for and here was his "godly" Mother telling him that he can't be different.
He can't take a stand for Jesus. Not at a public school. These men won't understand and he'll be benched during a game for missing part of practice.




As I type this I want to erase it all and just share with you the joy of him earning a spot on the team, but a few weeks ago I shared the same message about Alivia keeping Jesus quiet.

Driving off from leaving him at youth group I had to ask myself...what do I really believe?
Do I want Jesus as my #1 priority or do I just want Him when I feel He will fit into my lifestyle?
Do I want my kids to see me seeking God, or just hear me talk about it?

When the going gets tough will I choose Jesus or easy?

Reading this ugly reality about myself really bothers me.




Needless to say I was strongly convicted of what I had just encouraged my son not to do that I could hardly wait for him to get in the car when I picked him up. I apologized and told him that he has my full support and that I will be praying for him. I told him that God will bless him beyond what he can handle and to go for it. "Thanks, Mom".




I think my quick conviction had a lot to do with coming off an incredible study we just finished here recently of Lisa Whittle's book, "Behind Those Eyes". I had just spent 9 weeks learning how to be an authentic woman of God and here I was trying to squash my son's suggestion to step out in a public school and take a stand for Christ. The fire in his heart to put Jesus first above his passion of basketball put out by who else but his own Mom.



So I have asked God to bless this sweet son of mine.
I will learn from a 14 year old trying to draw near to the God.
I will take God at His Word that all things are possible with Him.
I have no doubt that God will honor Aaron for this.
If Aaron has to "ride the pine" as my husband Gene calls sitting on the bench instead of playing on the court because he misses some of Wednesday's practice, may God be glorified.



Lord, may You be glorified with this child's life.
You have instilled the gift of leadership in him.
May a curiosity rise up in his unsaved friends to find out what life is like after kneeling at the foot of the Cross from watching Aaron's example.
You are worth all of this Lord. You are.
Please help me to live out what I know and be an encouragment to my kids desire for You.
May I stop saying I want to live for you and just do it.


This Thanksgiving...


I am thankful that God has used my 14 year old to stir up my heart for Him.




Thank You Jesus.

This summer at the She Speaks conference, I met Heather from the Swallowing a Moose blog. She e-mailed me telling me about a blog she started specifically targeting God's goodness this Thanksgiving called Giving Thanks on Thanksgiving '08. Above is my contribution to it and if you want to join us click here to link your blog post under Mr. Linky. It is awesome to read the many testimonies of how great our God is and you can post it on Heather's blog anytime.




Thank you Heather for hosting this~you are a blessing to many...on a day you should have lost your life in that car accident, God stepped in and saved a life so worth saving.
Love to you Girl!


~Many Blessings~



*The next YES to GOD Tuesday on line Bible study begins: January 6, 2009.
Click here for more details.
Hope you'll join us for an exciting adventure with God!

12 comments:

Tammy said...

Lelia,
What a beautiful story...you are blessed.

Julie said...

Hey friend, I love the vulnerability of your heart. It is truly beautiful!

I hope your Thanksgiving was blessed!

Hugs,
Julie

HisPrincess said...

I know I've said it before but i just love your transparency.

What a blessing to have your 14 year old wanting to draw near to God! I'd love that to be happening in my house, but I fear he is pulling away...and I'm not sure what to do about it, or if I should be doing anything and just letting him find his way. But that would be handing over control..and that's a whole different issue!

Denise said...

May you be blessed dear one.

Mia said...

Just saying thank you for the book giveaway and "YEAH ME!!"
I remember when my oldest made the cheerleading squad a long time ago. Practices were on our day of worship....it was hard to make that choice but she did and God won!!

bethany said...

Hi Lelia,

Saw your comment on the LPM Blog and came over to visit your blog. I just read through the testimony of your daughter's experience with becoming a teenage mommy and was so touched by the way you've handled the situation. Such grace. She will benefit in ways that will last for many years. And that baby girl is too precious for words!

Blessings to you sister,
Bethany (Ca.)

AnooCre8ion said...

Hi Lelia, I remember when my daughter was a part of the cheer leading team and my son belonged to the football team. The games were scheduled for Sundays after a while and it was hard but I had to take a stand that Sundays was our day of worship.

It is great to know that your son made the choice on his own, but don't forget that you instilled this in him. So thanks be to God.

Blessings,
Vickie

Melanie said...

Wow.. I'm impressed with what your son will be doing! I know I couldn't/wouldn't have done that as a teenager.

swallowingamoose said...

L,

Your words are too sweet! I appreciate your participation in the Giving Thanks Event. I really enjoyed it and i'm sure the Lord was very pleased with our sharing of what He's done in & through us.

I gotta get hooked up on one of your bible study's!!

Love ya,
Heather

Yolanda said...

Aaron and Lelia,

Simply.....way to go. As you well know Lelia from walking life, and Aaron watching your Mom's footsteps....being a Christian is a tough walk with RICH BLESSINGS! So once again, I say....way to go for Jesus Christ!

Love,
Yolanda

Laura said...

Way to walk that walk, girlfriend!! I love the lessons I learn from my kids!! Love reading about yours too. I'm excited for the new study, siesta!


Happy Advent!

Mari said...

It's a journey. And He's bringing you further down that road to transformation. I am proud of you for responding to the Holy Spirit's conviction. That's awesome! I agree with you that Lisa's study has definitely worked some wonders! I find myself being more sensitive to His promptings and His convictions. Progress!